Lets admit it, we all wish for a perfect charming gentleman. And when we find someone who looks just like one, we are all permitted to fall. The sharp dresser, handsome killer man will give you the best first impression ever. His great dress sense will earn him your full attention and that's what he needs to get the ball rolling. He will say the right things to get you to agree to go on a date with him. The next thing is you start telling your friends about how you were charmed by his wit and self-deprecating sense of humor. And the chivalry. Oh, the chivalry.
Like any classic whirlwind romance, they fall hard(at least that's what she thinks) and become inseparable for a week. He will buy her presents. They will ran errands together. They will dine three meals a day. And she will leave friends worried about how deep she'd gotten so quickly.
Give it some time and he will crack. The real man will show. No gentleman but a broke ass man looking for who suck dry. No sharp dresser, hello! he borrowed all his outfits. No marriage like he promised because he has a wife.He might not be broke and all that I mentioned above.Too many scenarios. Final truth is that this guy is a liar and a joker.
He is battling demons and emotional problems/personality complexes. He's using every weapon he has beneath his sleeves to break her heart. He's using reverse psychology to get in her pants. They are master manipulators. She can never earn his true feeling because when she begins to see who he really his, she will be too heart broken and ready to run. If she doesn't run first, he will take the lead. Next time you try to reach him, he phones are switched off and he his out of town. Looking for the next victim.
As usual there will be red flags. But chances are we will all do the same. Press the ignore button.
The signs are :
1) Smooth approaches, along with sweat pick up lines..
2) He doesn't really care about what is going on in your life..
3) Quick to make psychical/sexual contact with you..
4) Acts funny with you when you are around other female friends of his
5) Never allows you to touch phone
6) Does not like to be seen with you in public
7) Really good and distinguishes your feelings
8) He hardly looks at you in the face when talking
Charm is dangerous. Looks can be deceiving. People can hide behind these two things, and guys know these things gets to girls. I mean who doesn't like a charming guy?
Just because he's charming and a good dresser doesn't mean he his going to play you. But watch out for the signs. There should be reasons other than the ones based on the physical things you see or the things he says, for you to fall in love with him.
If you've figured out you are in this situation, don't waste your time trying to figure things out or decode him. No matter how deep you dig, you eventually find out that this guy is full of empty promises. Pour your time into something else. Have your friends around. You will be fine. One day you will find you true prince.
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