MESSAGE FROM ME TO EVERY READER.

Yes that is a picture of me at a friend's house opening. It's a fine picture, so I decided to post it lol. I want to say a big thank you to every reader that visits the ladies moment blog. I'd like to welcome our new members too. Good news is we are almost reaching 10,000 views. Now that is big news! Amazingly, people are still viewing this the blog even after one month of no post from me haha. Its been like ages since I last posted on The Ladies Moment blog. I enjoy writing a lot as it is a own unique way of expressing my thoughts on issues and sharing these thoughts of mine with the rest of the world, just like some talented people do through music and art. I just had to go back to the plan I had before I started this blog because I wasn't satisfied with the results I was getting. Now this does not mean that I am not thankful for having everyone here. I just wanted the blog to look like the picture I had in my head when I started it. I had to do some re-arrangements of plans to enable me get a clearer focus on the vision. So for one month I have been asking myself these questions. Why did I start the ladies moment? What were my goals when I started? How did I intend to achieve these goals? Am I achieving these goals already? The answer to these questions you will find below.
I started the ladies moment for a reason

Dear Hurting Heart By Joy Oforka

                                              Credit: Linda Ikeji's Blog

Dear Hurting Heart,
I write to your heart - bruised, scarred or broken - knowing that it is its heavy weight that has so heavily clouded your eyes. I know I have no perfect knowledge of how you feel; your pain is peculiar to you. I only hope that I find the right words to soothe you where my hugs can't. I'm sorry life happened to you the way it did. I'm sorry you are going through so much pain. I'm sorry I really can't do more than say how sorry I am. 
I'm sorry if my sorry causes you to cry even more. I'm sorry I'm still talking though you wouldn't mind if I shut up.

Feeling Messed Up Is Part Of The Amazing Self Discovery Journey

That is why it is called self discovery—You get to try things. Some go well. Some don't.

We are born babies. Nobody came into this world all grown up. We came with nothing. We spent our childhood learning, mimicking and observing the people around us and the society we found ourselves in. In my late childhood, I had already developed some skills and habits that helped me blend into my society—the idea is that the adults in the community around us help us to reach this point of adaptation. All we knew at that point was what we were taught, what we saw people around

Quote Of The Week

"The secret to success is pressing on —consistently working  toward the goal that is set before you. Your calling, requires dedication, determination, and an intense desire to accomplish it.  Close your ears to detractors, forget past failures, and press on to accomplish what God has given you."

Don't Mark Down Your Price Tag!

"Integrity is a long, slippery slope but we must not fall out of it else we might end up heart broken, fired, hated or filled with regrets." 

A meaningful life is not about being rich, highly educated or being perfect. It's about being real, humble, sticking to your core values and touching the lives of others. I always try to remind myself that there is more to life than money, one thing we shouldn't lose for pleasure is integrity.  Yes we might enjoy the fame, money and captivating audience for a while but we will definitely

The Secret Every Woman Should Know About Herself

"Of course, men like it when they see us in those beautiful outfits looking sexy and hot, they like it when you have your make up on and you look perfect but these things won't get them to bow to your feet. They will only bow to a woman who loves and cherish herself. "

Every woman wants to be young, happy and graceful but the secret to being all that is not in Botox and plenty make up. The secret to being young, happy and graceful is in you. The secret is treating your own person well and making your 'self' content. Everyone talks about self love but only few people truly practice self love. 

Quote Of The day

" We are told to let our light shine, and if it does, we won't need to tell anybody it does. Lighthouses don't fire cannons to call attention to their shining - they just shine." ~
Dwight L. Moody